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Real vs. Real Fake
Okay, so I read an article in Women's heath and thought I'd share.
According to research done by Univ. of Kansas, 67% of women fake orgasms...Really? Come on girls. The problem with this is that the man who administers this Out of this world, "When Harry met Sally" moment that can be heard for 3 square blocks; he thinks that he's THE MAN. He has the gift to bring you the "O" and ultimate pleasure.
And what is he going to do...(besides share the event with his buddies) he's going to do the same exact thing again and again! Argh... "It worked before?"So then you have a harder time explaining why you're not all hot and bothered again.
Now if I, Dr. DemonLover if you will, may make a suggestion; Communicate!
Tell your lover what you like, how you like it and where you like it. Yes this goes for m/m, f/f, f/m, m/f/m....LOL, or what ever group you belong to.
If you are close enough to be NAKED and doing the DEED, then you better damn well be able to talk to your intamate other.
Now, if you fall into the catorgory of: "I don't know what I want?" or "I've never had an "O"!...(WTF??) then sister (or brother), it's time to make a date,
WITH YOURSELF!
A little alone time is what you need, a trip to the "Lotions & Lace" store, sexy lingerie, music, wine...any of these things can help set the mood.
Have a night alone and focus everything about you. YES I'm serious...If YOU know what you like and WANT, then you can communicate that to your partner.
It will save time, frustration and disappointment.
Even for us married gals, a trip to the "toy store" might just add that extra spice to a currently bland Sex Soup.
Think your partner will mind? When in the history of man kind did a man/woman refuse this line...
"Honey, I bought some new toys and lube, Wanna try them out?"
Case in point, if your sex life is perfect...write a "how to" book.
If you are a normal hot-blooded male or female, make everrything you can out of what you've got! "Kick it up a notch" as Emeril would say.... Just don't yell "BAM!" during...LOL
And please don't fake it...
The big "O" will make you happy, your partner happy for giving you so must pleasure and make the world a better place all together!
Be safe!
DL
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1 comments:
Excellent article. I saw this the other day myself. I could not believe the results. Ladies do not fake it. I agree you should be able to communicate what is or isn't working. Plus if you man finds out that you were faking it he is going to end up with a complex. Love the new Blog!
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